How to deal with the resentment you feel with a loved one.

When you are feeling resentment towards another it is because they didn't give you the desired results you were looking for.   Your loved one was reacting in the only way they know how based on their level of understanding.   If you give something to someone with the expectation of a certain result you are going to become frustrated.  I suggest you give from your heart without any connection to result or demands on the outcome.